Sunday, December 26, 2010
Help Parents Age Well with Drive After Dark to View the Christmas Lights
Christmas decorations make streets look festive and homes look welcoming. Especially at night, they can transform the ordinary into something uplifting and magical. In a world of unrest and uncertainty the colors and twinkling of the holiday lights on homes seem--in a way-- protective, signaling all is well within. And so it was comfortable for me to take a drive around my town last night to view the holiday lights.
After a wonderful Christmas eve party that included many little ones, representing the 3rd and 4th generations of a 96-year-old and his 87-year-old wife, I decided to extend the festive feeling by taking a detour on the way home to see lighted Christmas decorations on streets I rarely travel.
While the wonderful decorations are amateur, compared to the extravaganza we've seen in the Phoenix, Arizona area, they showcase the hard work and commitment of families to enhance their homes, yards, and neighborhood--a laudable goal under any circumstance.
As I climbed out of my car into the black, frigid night to snap these pictures (wearing non-sensible shoes), I could glimpse party-goers within, hear dogs barking to signal a stranger approaching, and realize some home owners had turned in for the night but left their colored lights glowing warmly in the yard.
Standing outside on the edge of their frozen property, I wondered if anyone realizedthe pleasure their displays provide. I wondered how many of us drive around to look at the lights; then wondered do we take our spouses and our children to enjoy the lights? Do we ever think of taking an aging parent, relative, or friend?
I'm sharing some of last night's pictures here. (Click on photos to enlarge.) Perhaps you'll be inspired as I am--to take a senior out for a drive after dark--before the year ends and the decorations come down.
After a certain age, many seniors don't drive at night. So here'a an opportunity to give them a change of scenery, to add interest to their lives--to contribute to helping parents, grandparents, and others age well.