Her father had early dementia in his early 90's. At that time she gently discussed whether or not he thought a different living situation would make sense. It was too soon for him, but the idea was planted. A few years later when he could still think clearly some of the time and she could capture the moment, she again broached the question. His response: "I don't want to give up being the boss yet." That's it, isn't it? Pure and simple.
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